2010年云南省昆明三中初三5月模拟试卷英语(含听力)

2010年云南省昆明三中初三5月模拟试卷英语(含听力) 2010年昆明三中、昆明滇池中学初三英语6月模拟考试 英语试卷 本试卷总分120分 考试时间120分钟 第一部分 听力(共四节，满分30分) 听力下载: 解压密码:www.hsehome.net 第一节 听句子，选出与句子内容相关的图画或句子。注意听两遍。(共7小题，每小题1分，满分7分) 1. A B C 2. A B C 3. A B C 4. A B C 5. A. Linda loves her dog very much. B. Lily liked collecting stamps. C. My sister loves bananas very much. 6. A. My friend has nicer clothes than I do. B. My father wears the same clothes as I do. C. Mr. Smith is a good teacher. 7. A. In five years, I’ll be a doctor. B. Five years ago, I was in high school. C. Today, Sally plays the piano. 第二节 根据所听到的句子，选出恰当的应答语。注意听两遍。(共7小题，每小题1分，满分7分) 8. A. Yes, I’d like to. B. Thanks a lot. C. Sorry, I can’t. 9. A. Sure, here you are. B. Sorry, here you are. C. Yes, you have to. 10. A. OK. You go! B. Good idea! But I must finish my homework first. C. That sounds boring. I like that. 11. A. At Tokyo. B. Today is Sunday. C. It’s on the New Year’s Day. 12. A. Dogs. B. Chinese. C. Apples. 13. A. By train. B. I had a wonderful time. C. I’m fine. 14. A. Yes, please. B. Here you are. C. It’s my pleasure. 第三节 听对话，选择正确答案。注意听两遍。(共6小题，每小题1分，满分6分) 听第一段对话，回答第15,16小题。 15.Would Jack like some apples? A. Yes, he wants some apples. B. No, he wants some bananas. C. Yes, he likes pears. 16. Does Jack like pears? A. Yes, he does. B. No, he doesn’t. C. No, he wants pears. 听第二段对话，回答第17,18小题。 17. What does the man want to buy? A. A white sweater. B. A yellow shirt. C. A yellow sweater. 18. How much does the man pay for it? A. Twenty yuan. B. Twelve dollars. C. Twenty dollars. 听第三段对话，回答第19,20小题。 19. What’s the time now? A. 7:00. B. 7:10. C. 3:00. 20.Where are the school clothes? A. Under the chair. B. On the chair. C. We don’t know. 第四节 听短文，根据短文内容回答问题。注意听三遍。(共5小题，每小题2分，满分10分) 21. Tom has _________ good friends. A. four B. two C. three 22. Jack has been collecting ___________. A. CD players B. CDs C. VCDs 23. David thinks collecting stamps can ____________. A. make him feel comfortable B. help him know about the world C. make him strong and healthy 24. ___________ doesn’t like sports. A. Jack and Mark B. Jack and David C. David and Tom 25. Mark often ___________when he is free. A. draws some pictures B. publishes his photos in newspapers C. takes some pictures 第二部分 英语知识运用(共二节，满分35分) 第一节 单项填空 (共25小题，每小题1分) 从A、B、C、D四个选项中，选出能填入空白处或替换划线部分的最佳答案。 26. Physics __________ difficult to learn. A. are B. is C. has D. be 27.--- We have to be quick. The train starts at 10:35. --- Don’t worry. There is __________ time to go. A. some B. any C. little D. few 28. --- I’m old enough to wash __________ clothes by __________. --- You can just wash ____________. A. my; yourself; your B. mine; myself; yours C. my; myself; yours D. my; yourself; yours 29. My brother studies at __________ Middle School. A. 10 No. B. No. 10 the C. No. 10 a D. No. 10 30. The Browns often come over to my family ___________ the evening. A. on B. for C. in D. of 31. --- Would you like to play basketball with us? Yes, I’d love to. _________ I’m afraid I have no time. --- A. But B. So C. Or D. And 32. --- Where’s Dad? --- He ___________ his car outside. A. mend B. mends D. mended D. is mending 33. --- Gina, could you lend me your novel? --- Sorry, but I __________ it only yesterday. I _________ it yet. A. bought; haven’t finished B. have bought; shall finish C. bought; didn’t finish D. have bought; shall not finish 34. --- Did you go to Jack’s birthday party? --- No, I ___________. A. am not invited B. haven’t invited C. wasn’t invited D. didn’t invited 35.Mother asks me _________ computer games before finishing my homework. A. not play B. to play C. to not play D. not to play 36. I think _________ is important ________ let him _________ know the truth. A. it; to; / B. it; / ; / C. this; to ; / D. that; / ; to 37. --- ___________ will you stay in America? --- About two months. A. How many B. How long C. How often D. How far 38. We’ll go hiking in the west hills if it __________ next Sunday. A. didn’t rain B. doesn’t rain C. hasn’t rain D. won’t rain 39. Tom is very _________ his new mobile phone and he always shows it to others. A. proud of B. good at C. famous for D. amazed at 40. --- Help! I can’t __________. The tree is too high. --- Don’t worry. Let me help you. A. go over B. fall behind C. fall off D. get down 41. What a nice car! How long have you ________ it? A. buy B. bought C. had D. have 42. My parents want to go _________ on vacation. They really want a great vacation. A. somewhere peaceful B. dangerous somewhere C. somewhere boring D. fascinating somewhere 43. ---I’m leaving. --- What? Some kind of joke? --- No. _____________. A. Never mind B. I’m serious C. I’m worried D. I’m not serious 44. --- You’ve done very well this time. --- ___________. A. Not at all B. No, no C. Thank you D. Don’t say that 45. --- What’s the matter? --- ___________. A. I’m sorry to hear that B. I did some washing this morning C. I left home after breakfast D. I’m really tired 46. --- Hello! Can I speak to Mr Smith? --- _________. I’ll go and get him. A. Speaking B. Hurry up, please C. Wrong number D. Hold on 47. --- Let’s chat online. ---____________. A. Not at all B. Thank you C. Good idea D. Good luck 48. In order to buy this big house, he saves every coin. A. makes somebody safe B. keeps money for future use C. makes something unnecessary D. collects coins 49. John stores lots of books under his bed. A. 商店 B. 储存 C. 阅读 D. 储蓄 50. Many tourists choose this hotel because it has the first-class service. A. 一流的 B. 一般的 C. 第一个班的 D. 贴心的 第二节 完形填空 (共10小题，每小题1分，满分10分) 从A、B、C三个选项中，选出能填入空白处的最佳答案。 There were no classes that afternoon, so Henry went to a 51 shop near his home. The shop sold many jackets. He looked 52 them and at last chose a very nice one. He 53 it on and then told the shopkeeper to put it into a 54 . At that time his friend Bruce came into the shop. They hadn’t seen each other for a long time. They were so 55 to meet again that they forgot everything. Soon they were busy 56 on and on happily. It was nearly six o’clock, 57 they decided to go and have dinner together. Henry picked up the bag, and walked 58 the door of the shop. The shopkeeper stopped them and asked Henry to pay for the 59 . Henry looked at him in surprise at first, but soon he remembered that he hadn’t paid for it. He said 60 , gave him the money and then left the shop with his friend. 51. A. fruit B. book C. clothing 52. A. up B. after C. at 53. A. put B. tried C. got 54. A. bag B. cup C. pocket 55. A. worried B. interested C. pleased 56. A. speaking B. talking C. to speak 7. A. though B. so C. because 5 58. A. towards B. out of D. round 59. A. jacket B. bag C. dinner 60. A. sorry B. yes C. hello 第三部分 阅读理解 (共15小题，每小题2分，满分30分) ( A ) A poor boy had to sell things door by door for money to pay his schooling. One day he found that he only had one dime(一角钱) left, and he was hungry so he decided to beg(乞讨) for a meal at the next house. However, he felt nervous when a lovely young woman opened the door. Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water. She thought he looked hungry so she brought him a large glass of milk. He drank it slowly, and then asked, “How much do I owe(欠) you?” “You don’t owe me anything,” she answered. “Mother has taught me never to accept(接受) pay for a kindness.” He said, “Then I thank you from the bottom of my heart.” As the boy left that house, he not only felt strongly moved, but also believed in people greatly. Years later the woman was badly ill. The local(当地) doctors tried their best, but couldn’t cure(治愈) her. They finally sent her to a hospital in the big city. Dr Howard Kelly, now famous, was called in. when he heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes. Immediately(立即), dressed in his doctor’s clothes, he went through the hospital hall into her room. He recognized(认 出) her at once. He went back to his office and decided to do his best to save her life. From that day on, he gave special attention to her. After some time, the woman was well enough. Dr Kelly asked the nurse to bring him the final bill(药费单). He looked at it and then wrote something on the side. The bill was sent to her room. She was afraid to open it because she was sure that it would take the rest of her life to pay it off. Finally she looked, and the note Paid in full on the side of the bill caught her attention. She read these words, “ with a glass of milk. ---Dr Howard Kelly.” Tears of joy flooded her eyes! 61. A poor boy had to sell things_________ to get money for his schooling. A. from house to house B. at the market C. in the shop D. in the street 62. The boy had to beg for a meal one day because he___________. A. was thirsty B. was hungry C. wanted to save money D. was free 63. The lovely young woman gave him a ___________. A. a glass of water B. a bowl of rice C. a glass of milk D. a big meal 4. Many years later the poor boy __________. 6 A. was badly ill B. became a famous doctor C. worked in a local hospital D. still sold things door by door 65. Which of the following is NOT true? A. The boy changed his idea to people after meeting the kind-hearted young woman. B. Years later the woman was badly ill and was cured in a local hospital. C. The woman was sent to the hospital where the famous doctor worked. D. Dr Howard Kelly paid all the bill for the woman. ( B ) Van Gogh (凡高) was born in Holland in 1853. He enjoyed drawing when he was a child. He worked for an art dealer(经营者) in London and Paris for four years, before he became a teacher in England for a short time. He moved back to France in 1877 and soon began to paint. He didn’t stay long in Paris. He was attracted by the colors of the countryside and, in 1888, he moved to Arles, a small town in the south of France. There, he painted his most famous paintings. He enjoyed painting people, farms, flowers, and other natural things. Some of his most famous paintings are The Potato Eaters, The Starry Night, and several different Sunflower paintings. The Starry Night is now kept in the Museum of Modern Art in New York. There is a quiet village and a tall black tree under an angry sky. Some people say that it is a true picture of the stars on that day. He was poor most of his life. He made hundreds of paintings, but only sold one of them while he lived. He was a lonely, unhappy man who died at the early age of 37. Today, people love Van Gogh’s use of color and the emotional power(激情) of his work. Van Gogh’s paintings are world famous and worth millions of dollars. Museums are around the world proudly show paintings by the great artist. 66. Van Gogh began to paint in____________. A. Holland B. France C. London D. New York 67.Van Gogh moved to Arles because__________. A. it was a famous small town B. it was in the south of France C. he liked teaching in the countryside D. he enjoyed the colors of the countryside 68. In Van Gogh’s The Starry Night, we can see ___________. A. some people B. some flowers C. a village and a tree D. a potato 69. Van Gogh died in___________. A. 1890 B. 1888 C. 1877 D. 1869 70. His paintings are world famous for__________. A. his poor life B. the high prices C. the use of color and emotional power D. the war in his mind between peace and anger (C) 阅读短文，判断正(T)误(F)。 Americans love sports—they love to play them, to watch them on television, and to talk about them. But this hobby sometimes has serious results—at least to the players. For example, when people play tennis, sometimes they hurt their elbow(肘部)and in this way they develop “tennis elbow”. Also it is easy to hurt a knee in a football game. These injuries(损伤)happen while the player is having fun, but they still hurt. A few months ago, Kathleen Simmons, who loves playing volleyball, hurt her knee in a volleyball game. Her doctor told her that she needed a very difficult operation(手术)or she might not be able to play again. She felt very sad and didn’t know what to do. Then Simmons learned about “video operation”. With the help of this new science in medicine, doctors can now repair many injuries and get people back on the playing field and back to their jobs much faster. Simmons found a hospital that was using this new science and went to see the doctor there. The doctors told her the operation could help. For this operation, her doctor put a very small camera lens(镜头)inside her knee. The lens sent back pictures, which appeared on a television screen. As he worked, he could see the inside of her knee on the TV. With the help of the large pictures on the screen, the doctor knew exactly what to do when he was making the repairs. Simmons started walking five days after her operation. “My knee hurt a lot the first few days,” she said. “But I felt better very quickly.” Now, six months after her operation, Simmons can do everything she did before her injury. “It feels like a new knee,” she said. “I can even play volleyball again.” 71. When people play some sports, they sometimes hurt some parts of their bodies. 72. The doctor told Kathleen Simmons that she might not be able to play again if she didn’t have an operation 73. With the help of the large pictures on the screen, the doctor knew exactly what to do when he was making the repairs. 74. For the operation, the doctor put a very small digital camera inside her knee 75. Kathleen Simmons’ knee didn’t hurt at all after the operation. 第四部分 写作(共三节，满分25分) 第一节 单词填空 (共10小题，每小题1分，满分10分) 根据句意，用括号中所给词的适当形式填空，要语篇意思完整，必要时请用否定式。 In the modern world, advertising is everywhere! Some people think that ads are great. 76.____________(other) hate ads, saying that they make our cities and countryside 77.___________(look) ugly. Many ads are aimed specifically at teenagers, and some young people see more than 100 advertisements a day. It’s 78.___________(truly) that some ads can be very useful. For instance, they can help you compare two different products so that you can buy the one you 79.___________(real) need. However, some advertising can be 80.__________(confuse) or misleading. Sometimes the words sound good but don’t really tell you 81.____________ (something) about the quality of the product. For example, the Easy Shampoo says it will give you the shiniest hair ever. But some girls tried it but they found that it 82.___________(work). At other times, the picture in an ad looks a lot o you have to be 84.__________(care). 83._____________(good) than the real thing. S At times an ad can lead you 85.__________(buy) something you don’t really need at all. 第二节 补全对话 根据对话内容，在空白处写出适当的句子，使对话的意思连贯、完整。所写句子应与所给 的标点符号一致。(共5个句子，每句1分，满分5分) A:Where do you come from , please ? B:Guess ! A:You come from Guangzhou , don’t you ? B:Yes , I do . ______________________________________?( 86) A:The way you speak ! ______________________________?( 87) B:Two years ago . My father found work in Guangzhou A:_______________________________________________?( 88) B:Yes, I do. I think Guangzhou is a modern city. A:What does your father do now ? B:He teaches math in a school . A:Oh , he is a math teacher . Could he help me with my math lesson ? B:___________________________________. ( 89) He’s in hospital now . He is ill . A:__________________________________.( 90) I hope he can get better soon. 第三节 书面 表 关于同志近三年现实表现材料材料类招标技术评分表图表与交易pdf视力表打印pdf用图表说话 pdf 达 (满分10分) 2010年云南省大部分地区发生了百年不遇的干旱，水资源严重短缺，请你以 “The Earth ,80字左右的短文，谈谈你的看法。开头和结尾已给Is Thirsty”为题，写一篇字数为60 出，不计入字数。 提示: 1. 水对地球上一切动植物的用处及重要性; 2. 人们日常生活中浪费水的现状; 3. 许多地方人们喝不上干净的水，许多动物因没水喝而导致死亡; 4. 倡导节约用水(如:不用太多水洗车,不用干净水浇园等). The Earth Is Thirsty Nothing on the earth can live without water. _________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ We must protect and save water, because water means life. 2010年昆明三中、昆明滇池中学初三英语6月模拟考试 英语试卷参考答案 听力 第一节 听句子，选出与句子内容相关的图画或句子。注意听两遍。 1. My good friend is Lily. She has long curly hair . She wears a blouse and a skirt. 2. Last summer, I went to Hainan on vacation. I enjoyed myself on the beach. 3. Sally loves her watch very much. 4. Tom is playing soccer on the playground now. 5. Lily liked collecting stamps. 6. My friend has nicer clothes than I do. 7. Five years ago, I was in high school. 第二节 根据所听到的句子，选出恰当的应答语。注意听两遍。 8. Oh, it’s too heavy. Let me help you carry it. 9. Excuse me. May I borrow your pencil-case? 10. Do you want to go to a movie? 11. When is your birthday? 12. What’s your favorite subject? 13. How was your vacation? 14. Would you like a cup of tea? 第三节 听对话，选择正确答案。注意听两遍。 听第一段对话，回答第15,16小题。 W: What do you want to have, Jack? M: I want apples and bananas. W: Do you want some pears? M: No, thanks. I don’t like pears very much. 听第二段对话，回答第17,18小题。 W: Can I help you, young man? M: Yes, I want a sweater. W: What color do you want? M: Yellow, I think that yellow one is OK. How much is it? W: Twenty dollars. M: OK. I’ll take it. 听第三段对话，回答第19,20小题。 W: Tom! It’s seven o’clock. It’s time to get up. M: Yes, mom. Where are my school clothes? I want to wear them. W: There they are. They are on the chair. Put them on, please. Come and have breakfast. M: Thanks, Mom. But I’m late. I have no time to eat my breakfast. W: Wait a moment. But what day is it today? s Sunday today. M: Oh, dear! It’ 第四节 听短文，根据短文内容回答问题。注意听三遍。 Tom has three good friends. They are Jack, David and Mark. They have different hobbies. Tom likes football. He often plays football on weekends. He thinks playing football can make him strong and healthy. He is on the school football team. Jack doesn’t like sports. He likes listening to music. His favorite singer is Jay Chow. He has been collecting his CDs. He often listens to music in the hallways. He thinks music can make him feel comfortable. David doesn’t like sports or music. He likes stamps. He has been collecting stamps for five years. The stamps are very beautiful. He thinks collecting stamps can help him know about the world. Mark likes taking pictures. He has got several cameras. When he is free, he often takes out his camera and takes some pictures. Some of his pictures have been published in newspapers. He thinks the world is beautiful. He wants to show the beauty of the world to others. 第一部分 听力(共四节，满分30分) 1~7 CABBBAB 8~14 BABCBBA 15~20 ABCCAB 21~25 CBBBC 第二部分 英语知识运用(共二节，满分35分) 第一节 单项填空 (共25小题，每小题1分) 26.~30 BACDC 31~35 ADACD 36~40 ABBAD 41~45 CABCD 46~50 DCBBA 第二节 完形填空 (共10小题，每小题1分，满分10分) 51~55 CCBAC 56~60 BBBAA 第三部分 阅读理解 (共15小题，每小题2分，满分30分) 61~65 ABCBB 66~70 BDCAC 71~75 TTTFF 第四部分 写作(共三节，满分25分) 第一节 单词填空 (共10小题，每小题1分，满分10分) 76. Others 77. look 78. true 79. really 80. confusing 81. anything 82. didn’t 83. better 84. careful 85. to buy 第二节 补全对话(共5个句子，每句1分，满分5分) 86. How do/can you know that? 87. When did you come/move to Guangzhou? 88. Do you like Guangzhou? 89. I don’t think so./ Sorry, he can’t. 90. I’m sorry to hear that. 第三节 书面表达 (满分10分) 略 下面红色字体部分是赠送的散文欣赏摘自网络，不需要的朋友下载后可以编辑删除～～～谢谢～～～ 可依靠的唯有自己 这是发生在一个普通犹太人家庭里，父亲和儿子的故事: 儿子叫约翰，在他4岁那年，有一天他和姐姐在客厅玩捉迷藏。他们玩得正高兴，父亲抱起小约翰，把他放在沙发椅上面，然后伸出双手做出接的姿势，叫他往下跳。小约翰毫不犹豫地往下跳，在即将抓住父亲的瞬间，父亲缩回了双手，约翰摔到了地板上，他号啕大哭起来。小约翰向坐在沙发上的妈妈求助，妈妈若 无其事地坐着，并不去扶他，只是微笑着说:“呵，好坏的爸爸～”父亲站在一边，以嘲弄的眼光望着上当受骗的小约翰。 这便是犹太家庭教子的方法之一，这样做的目的是灌输给孩子一个理念:社会是复杂的，不要轻信他人，唯一可依赖的就是自己。 犹太家庭的孩子都要回答这样一个问题:“假如有一天房子被烧着了，你将带着什么东西逃跑,”如果孩子回答是钱财，母亲会进一步问:“有一种没有形状、没有颜色、没有气味的宝贝，你知道是什么吗,”如果孩子回答不出来，母亲会告诉他:“孩子，你要带走的不是钱财，而是智慧。因为智慧是任何人都抢不走的，你只要活着，智慧就永远跟着你。” 你对爸爸的爱，远远胜过那部车 一个犹太家庭的父亲，存钱存了很久，终于买了一辆自己向往已久的新车。新车开到家后，他珍爱有加，每天都要洗车打蜡。他5岁的儿子见父亲这么爱车，也常常乐此不疲地帮爸爸一起洗车。 有一天，这位父亲开车回到家后，累得一动也不想动。于是他决定破一次例，改天再洗车，尽管自己的爱车因淋了雨，而显得脏乱不堪。 这时，5岁的儿子见父亲这么累，就自告奋勇地要帮爸爸洗车，见他这么小的年纪，就知道体谅自己，心里甚感欣慰，便放手让儿子去洗。 儿子要动手洗车了，却找不到洗车用的毛巾。于是他走进厨房，立刻便想到母亲平时煮菜洗锅时，都是用钢刷使劲刷才刷干净的，所以既然没有毛巾，就用钢刷吧～他拿起钢刷用力地洗起车来，一遍又一遍，像刷锅一样地刷车。 等他洗完之后，听见“哇”的一声，他失声大哭起来，车子怎么都花了,这下可闯大祸了，他急忙跑去找父亲，边哭边说:“爸爸，对不起，爸爸，你来看～”父亲疑惑地跟着儿子走到车旁，他也“哇”的一声，“我的车，我的车～” 这位父亲怒气冲冲地走进房间，气急败坏地跪在地上祷告:“上帝呀，请你告诉我，我该怎么做,那是我新买的车，一个月不到，就变成这样，我该怎么处罚我的孩子,” 他才祷告完，耳边忽然出现一个声音“世人都是看表面，而我却是看内心～”突然间，他彻悟了。 他走出房门，儿子正害怕地流着泪，动也不敢动。 父亲走上前去，把孩子紧紧地拥在怀里，亲切地说:“谢谢你帮爸爸洗车，爸爸对你的爱，远远胜过对那部车子。” 凡事要透过表面去看本质，当家人或朋友无意间做错了某件事时，我们要理智对待，不要只看事情的表面，而忽略他们内心真实的想法。学会用爱心去包容爱心，家会让你感觉自己的周围，时时洋溢温暖的阳光。 小饭馆的生意很好，因为物美价廉，因为他的谦和和妻子的热情。每天早晨，三四点钟他就早早起来去采购，直到天亮才把所需要的蔬菜、鲜肉拉回家。没有雇人手，两个人忙得像陀螺。常常，因为缺乏睡眠，他的眼睛红红的。 不久，一个推着三轮车的老人来到他门前。她驼背，走路一跛一跛的，用手比划着，想为他提供蔬菜和鲜肉，绝对新鲜，价格还便宜。老人是个哑巴，脸上满是灰尘，额角和眼边的几块疤痕让她看上去面目丑陋。妻子不同意，老人的样子，看上去实在不舒服。可他却不顾妻子的反对，答应下来。不知怎的，眼前的老人让他突然想起了母亲。 老人很讲信用，每次应他要求运来的蔬菜果然都是新鲜的。于是，每天早晨六点钟，满满一三轮车的菜准时送到他的饭馆门前。他偶尔也请老人吃碗面，老人吃得很慢，很享受的样子。他心里酸酸的，对老人说，她每天都可以在这儿吃碗面。老人笑了，一跛一跛地走过来。他看着她，不知怎的，又想起了母亲，突然有一种想哭的冲动。 一晃，两年又过去了，他的饭馆成了酒楼，他也有了一笔数目可观的积蓄，买了房子。可为他送菜的，依旧是那个老人。 又过了半个月，突然有一天，他在门前等了很久，却一直等不到老人。时间已经过了一个小时，老人还没有来。他没有她的联系方式，无奈，只好让工人去买菜。两小时后，工人拉回了菜，仔细看看，他心里有了疙瘩，这车菜远远比不上老人送的莱。老人送来的菜全经过精心挑选，几乎没有干叶子，棵棵都清爽。 只是，从那天后，老人再未出现。 春节就要到了，他包着饺子，突然对妻子说想给老人送去一碗，顺便看看她发生了什么事。怎么一个星期都没有送菜,这可是从没有过的事。妻子点头。 煮了饺子，他拎着，反复打听一个跛脚的送菜老人，终于在离他酒楼两个街道的胡同里，打听到她了。 他敲了半天门，无人应答。门虚掩着，他顺手推开。昏暗狭小的屋子里，老人在床上躺着，骨瘦如柴。老人看到他，诧异地睁大眼，想坐起来，却无能为力。他把饺子放到床边，问老人是不是病了。老人张张嘴，想说什么，却没说出来。他坐下来，打量这间小屋子，突然，墙上的几张照片让他吃惊地张大嘴巴。竟然是他和妈妈的合影～他5岁时，10岁时，17岁时……墙角，一只用旧布包着的包袱，包袱皮上，绣着一朵梅花。他转过头，呆呆地看着老人，问她是谁。老人怔怔地，突然脱口而出:儿啊。 他彻底惊呆了～眼前的老人，不是哑巴,为他送了两年菜的老人，是他的母亲, 那沙哑的声音分明如此熟悉，不是他母亲又能是谁,他呆愣愣地，突然上前，一把抱住母亲，号啕痛哭，母子俩的眼泪沾到了一起。 不知哭了多久，他 先抬起头，哽咽着说看到了母亲的坟，以为她去世了，所以才离开家。母亲擦擦眼泪，说是她让邻居这么做的。她做工的爆竹厂发生爆炸，她侥幸活下来，却毁了容，瘸了腿。看看自己的模样，想想儿子进过监狱，家里又穷，以后他一定连媳妇都娶不上。为了不拖累他，她想出了这个主意，说自己去世，让他远走他乡，在异地生根，娶妻生子。得知他离开了家乡，她回到村子。辗转打听，才知道他来到了这个城市。她以捡破烂为生，寻找他四年，终于在这家小饭馆里找到他。她欣喜若狂，看着儿子忙碌，她又感到心痛。为了每天见到儿子，帮他减轻负担，她开始替他买菜，一买就是两年。可现在，她的腿脚不利索，下不了床了，所以，再不能为他送菜。 这种信任和理解真的很重要。 这个故事对于众多家长来说有很强的的启迪和警示作用:“你到底爱的是孩子，还是孩子努力的结果,如果是后者，那说明你不会爱～”亦或是“你到底是爱自己的孩子，还是爱那个你心目中的孩子,如果是后者，那说明你不会爱～”，往往，在和孩子互动过程中，我们关注自己的感受，关注孩子是否改错，关注孩子是否优秀，而我们忽略了关注孩子本身，这些都是打着爱的旗号伤害着孩子，但我们往往认为这就是爱。请牢记，孩子本身最重要～ 让孩子去开辟自己的天空 《一个犹太人的家庭教育》讲的是一个伟大的犹太母亲把三个孩子培养成才的理念和方法。这位母亲生在上海，父亲是犹太人，在她12岁那年去世了，随后母亲也离她而去，她成了孤儿。长大后在上海铜厂做女工，结婚后生下三个孩子，但不久后丈夫又离她而去了。为了逃避痛苦，她成为中以建交后第一批回到以色列的犹太后裔。 为了生存，也为了三个孩子能早日回到以色列，她先发奋学习希伯来语，然后，在路边摆了个小摊卖春卷。以色列的官方货币是谢克尔，一谢克尔兑换人民币2块钱，更小的币值是雅戈洛，一谢克尔等于100雅戈洛。她的春卷小摊每天只能赚到十来个谢克尔…… 1993年，她接回了三个孩子，大儿子14岁，二儿子13岁，小女儿11岁。开始她一直秉承再苦不能苦孩子的原则，依旧做着合格的中国式妈妈。把孩子送去学校读书，她卖春卷，孩子放学，她就停止营业，在小炉子上面给他们做馄饨或者面条。这一幕被邻居看到了，就来训斥大儿子:“你已经是大孩子了，你应该学会去帮助你的母亲，而不是看着你母亲忙碌，自己就像废物一样。”然后转过头训斥母亲:“不要把那种落后的中国式教育带到以色列来……” 大儿子和她都很难受，但他们都在慢慢地改变，大儿子不但学会了做春卷，还把春卷带到学校卖，每天，三个小孩子能赚到10个谢克尔，回家交给母亲。母亲觉得很心酸，让他们小小年纪就担起生活的担子，但犹太人不这么认为，在 犹太家庭里，孩子们没有免费的食物和照顾，任何东西都是有价格的，每个孩子都必须学会赚钱，才能获得自己需要的一切。 于是妈妈不再提供免费的餐食和服务，同时也给他们赚钱的机会，以每个春卷30雅戈洛的价钱批发给他们，带到学校后，可自行加价出售，利润部分自由支配。 三个孩子卖春卷的方式竟然截然不同。小女儿最老实，按老价钱50雅戈洛一个零售;二儿子则以40雅戈洛的价钱批发给学校餐厅，每天让他送100个春卷;大儿子则举办了一个“带你走进中国”的讲座，讲座的噱头就在于可以免费品尝美味的中国春卷，但需要买入场券，每人10雅戈洛，结果收入1500雅戈洛。 随后他们琢磨出了更多更新颖的赚钱方法，他们很努力地去学习和思考，学业并没有受到任何影响。 同样作为父母，是不是应该引起我们的反思,我们每天一睁开眼睛就为了孩子忙活，做饭、洗衣服、接送、辅导作业，然后才是做自己的事情，每天忙的团团转，累得筋疲力尽。一发牢骚，孩子还会心生厌烦，根本不理解我的付出。再回头看看，每一位中国母亲不都是这样吗,这样我们就很伟大吗,我们付出了很多，却造就了一个又一个“小皇帝”、“小公主”…… 我们希望孩子成才，却又过度的保护他们，使得孩子变得无能无法自立;过分的溺爱，带来孩子的无情;过多的干涉，让孩子多了很多无奈;过多的指责，让孩子变得不知所措，找不到前进的方向…… 想要为孩子创造一个无忧无虑，快乐成长的天空，但却发现自己完完全全的占据了创造者的位置，其实，这个位置也要有一部分让孩子承担。现在的照顾，也许会暂时保护着他们，但是他们总有一天会长大，会在长大后遇到许许多多的困难，那个时候，我们是如何也帮不了他们的……也许，让孩子过早的面对金钱面对名利面对社会，会有不舍和心疼，但他们总有一天要面对，总有一天要承担。 我们为何不像那位犹太母亲那样，放开手，让孩子自己去开辟属于他们自己的天空呢, 下面红色字体部分是赠送的散文欣赏摘自网络，不需要的朋友下载后可以编辑删除～～～谢谢～～～ 可依靠的唯有自己 这是发生在一个普通犹太人家庭里，父亲和儿子的故事: 儿子叫约翰，在他4岁那年，有一天他和姐姐在客厅玩捉迷藏。他们玩得正高兴，父亲抱起小约翰，把他放在沙发椅上面，然后伸出双手做出接的姿势，叫他往下跳。小约翰毫不犹豫地往下跳，在即将抓住父亲的瞬间，父亲缩回了双手，约翰摔到了地板上，他号啕大哭起来。小约翰向坐在沙发上的妈妈求助，妈妈若无其事地坐着，并不去扶他，只是微笑着说:“呵，好坏的爸爸～”父亲站在一边，以嘲弄的眼光望着上当受骗的小约翰。 这便是犹太家庭教子的方法之一，这样做的目的是灌输给孩子一个理念:社会是复杂的，不要轻信他人，唯一可依赖的就是自己。 犹太家庭的孩子都要回答这样一个问题:“假如有一天房子被烧着了，你将带着什么东西逃跑,”如果孩子回答是钱财，母亲会进一步问:“有一种没有形状、 没有颜色、没有气味的宝贝，你知道是什么吗,”如果孩子回答不出来，母亲会告诉他:“孩子，你要带走的不是钱财，而是智慧。因为智慧是任何人都抢不走的，你只要活着，智慧就永远跟着你。” 你对爸爸的爱，远远胜过那部车 一个犹太家庭的父亲，存钱存了很久，终于买了一辆自己向往已久的新车。新车开到家后，他珍爱有加，每天都要洗车打蜡。他5岁的儿子见父亲这么爱车，也常常乐此不疲地帮爸爸一起洗车。 有一天，这位父亲开车回到家后，累得一动也不想动。于是他决定破一次例，改天再洗车，尽管自己的爱车因淋了雨，而显得脏乱不堪。 这时，5岁的儿子见父亲这么累，就自告奋勇地要帮爸爸洗车，见他这么小的年纪，就知道体谅自己，心里甚感欣慰，便放手让儿子去洗。 儿子要动手洗车了，却找不到洗车用的毛巾。于是他走进厨房，立刻便想到母亲平时煮菜洗锅时，都是用钢刷使劲刷才刷干净的，所以既然没有毛巾，就用钢刷吧～他拿起钢刷用力地洗起车来，一遍又一遍，像刷锅一样地刷车。 等他洗完之后，听见“哇”的一声，他失声大哭起来，车子怎么都花了,这下可闯大祸了，他急忙跑去找父亲，边哭边说:“爸爸，对不起，爸爸，你来看～”父亲疑惑地跟着儿子走到车旁，他也“哇”的一声，“我的车，我的车～” 这位父亲怒气冲冲地走进房间，气急败坏地跪在地上祷告:“上帝呀，请你告诉我，我该怎么做,那是我新买的车，一个月不到，就变成这样，我该怎么处罚我的孩子,” 他才祷告完，耳边忽然出现一个声音“世人都是看表面，而我却是看内心～”突然间，他彻悟了。 他走出房门，儿子正害怕地流着泪，动也不敢动。 父亲走上前去，把孩子紧紧地拥在怀里，亲切地说:“谢谢你帮爸爸洗车，爸爸对你的爱，远远胜过对那部车子。” 凡事要透过表面去看本质，当家人或朋友无意间做错了某件事时，我们要理智对待，不要只看事情的表面，而忽略他们内心真实的想法。学会用爱心去包容爱心，家会让你感觉自己的周围，时时洋溢温暖的阳光。 小饭馆的生意很好，因为物美价廉，因为他的谦和和妻子的热情。每天早晨，三四点钟他就早早起来去采购，直到天亮才把所需要的蔬菜、鲜肉拉回家。没有雇人手，两个人忙得像陀螺。常常，因为缺乏睡眠，他的眼睛红红的。 不久，一个推着三轮车的老人来到他门前。她驼背，走路一跛一跛的，用手比划着，想为他提供蔬菜和鲜肉，绝对新鲜，价格还便宜。老人是个哑巴，脸上满是灰尘，额角和眼边的几 块疤痕让她看上去面目丑陋。妻子不同意，老人的样子，看上去实在不舒服。可他却不顾妻子的反对，答应下来。不知怎的，眼前的老人让他突然想起了母亲。 老人很讲信用，每次应他要求运来的蔬菜果然都是新鲜的。于是，每天早晨六点钟，满满一三轮车的菜准时送到他的饭馆门前。他偶尔也请老人吃碗面，老人吃得很慢，很享受的样子。他心里酸酸的，对老人说，她每天都可以在这儿吃碗面。老人笑了，一跛一跛地走过来。他看着她，不知怎的，又想起了母亲，突然有一种想哭的冲动。 一晃，两年又过去了，他的饭馆成了酒楼，他也有了一笔数目可观的积蓄，买了房子。可为他送菜的，依旧是那个老人。 又过了半个月，突然有一天，他在门前等了很久，却一直等不到老人。时间已经过了一个小时，老人还没有来。他没有她的联系方式，无奈，只好让工人去买菜。两小时后，工人拉回了菜，仔细看看，他心里有了疙瘩，这车菜远远比不上老人送的莱。老人送来的菜全经过精心挑选，几乎没有干叶子，棵棵都清爽。 只是，从那天后，老人再未出现。 春节就要到了，他包着饺子，突然对妻子说想给老人送去一碗，顺便看看她发生了什么事。怎么一个星期都没有送菜,这可是从没有过的事。妻子点头。 煮了饺子，他拎着，反复打听一个跛脚的送菜老人，终于在离他酒楼两个街道的胡同里，打听到她了。 他敲了半天门，无人应答。门虚掩着，他顺手推开。昏暗狭小的屋子里，老人在床上躺着，骨瘦如柴。老人看到他，诧异地睁大眼，想坐起来，却无能为力。他把饺子放到床边，问老人是不是病了。老人张张嘴，想说什么，却没说出来。他坐下来，打量这间小屋子，突然，墙上的几张照片让他吃惊地张大嘴巴。竟然是他和妈妈的合影～他5岁时，10岁时，17岁时……墙角，一只用旧布包着的包袱，包袱皮上，绣着一朵梅花。他转过头，呆呆地看着老人，问她是谁。老人怔怔地，突然脱口而出:儿啊。 他彻底惊呆了～眼前的老人，不是哑巴,为他送了两年菜的老人，是他的母亲, 那沙哑的声音分明如此熟悉，不是他母亲又能是谁,他呆愣愣地，突然上前，一把抱住母亲，号啕痛哭，母子俩的眼泪沾到了一起。 不知哭了多久，他先抬起头，哽咽着说看到了母亲的坟，以为她去世了，所以才离开家。母亲擦擦眼泪，说是她让邻居这么做的。她做工的爆竹厂发生爆炸，她侥幸活下来，却毁了容，瘸了腿。看看自己的模样，想想儿子进过监狱，家里又穷，以后他一定连媳妇都娶不上。为了不拖累他，她想出了这个主意，说自己去世，让他远走他乡，在异地生根，娶妻生子。得知他离开了家乡，她回到村子。辗转打听，才知道他来到了这个城市。她以捡破烂为生，寻找他四年，终于在这家小饭馆里找到他。她欣喜若狂，看着儿子忙碌，她又感到心痛。为了每天见到儿子，帮他减轻负担， 她开始替他买菜，一买就是两年。可现在，她的腿脚不利索，下不了床了，所以，再不能为他送菜。 这种信任和理解真的很重要。 这个故事对于众多家长来说有很强的的启迪和警示作用:“你到底爱的是孩子，还是孩子努力的结果,如果是后者，那说明你不会爱～”亦或是“你到底是爱自己的孩子，还是爱那个你心目中的孩子,如果是后者，那说明你不会爱～”，往往，在和孩子互动过程中，我们关注自己的感受，关注孩子是否改错，关注孩子是否优秀，而我们忽略了关注孩子本身，这些都是打着爱的旗号伤害着孩子，但我们往往认为这就是爱。请牢记，孩子本身最重要～ 让孩子去开辟自己的天空 《一个犹太人的家庭教育》讲的是一个伟大的犹太母亲把三个孩子培养成才的理念和方法。这位母亲生在上海，父亲是犹太人，在她12岁那年去世了，随后母亲也离她而去，她成了孤儿。长大后在上海铜厂做女工，结婚后生下三个孩子，但不久后丈夫又离她而去了。为了逃避痛苦，她成为中以建交后第一批回到以色列的犹太后裔。 为了生存，也为了三个孩子能早日回到以色列，她先发奋学习希伯来语，然后，在路边摆了个小摊卖春卷。以色列的官方货币是谢克尔，一谢克尔兑换人民币2块钱，更小的币值是雅戈洛，一谢克尔等于100雅戈洛。她的春卷小摊每天只能赚到十来个谢克尔…… 1993年，她接回了三个孩子，大儿子14岁，二儿子13岁，小女儿11岁。开始她一直秉承再苦不能苦孩子的原则，依旧做着合格的中国式妈妈。把孩子送去学校读书，她卖春卷，孩子放学，她就停止营业，在小炉子上面给他们做馄饨或者面条。这一幕被邻居看到了，就来训斥大儿子:“你已经是大孩子了，你应该学会去帮助你的母亲，而不是看着你母亲忙碌，自己就像废物一样。”然后转过头训斥母亲:“不要把那种落后的中国式教育带到以色列来……” 大儿子和她都很难受，但他们都在慢慢地改变，大儿子不但学会了做春卷，还把春卷带到学校卖，每天，三个小孩子能赚到10个谢克尔，回家交给母亲。母亲觉得很心酸，让他们小小年纪就担起生活的担子，但犹太人不这么认为，在犹太家庭里，孩子们没有免费的食物和照顾，任何东西都是有价格的，每个孩子都必须学会赚钱，才能获得自己需要的一切。 于是妈妈不再提供免费的餐食和服务，同时也给他们赚钱的机会，以每个春卷30雅戈洛的价钱批发给他们，带到学校后，可自行加价出售，利润部分自由支配。 三个孩子卖春卷的方式竟然截然不同。小女儿最老实，按老价钱50雅戈洛一个零售;二儿子则以40雅戈洛的价钱批发给学校餐厅，每天让他送100个春卷;大儿子则举办了一个“带你走进中国”的讲座，讲座的噱头就在于可以免费品尝美味的中国春卷，但需要买入场券，每人10雅戈洛，结果收入1500雅戈洛。 随后他们琢磨出了更多更新颖的赚钱方法，他们很努力地去学习和思考，学业并没有受到任何影响。 同样作为父母，是不是应该引起我们的反思,我们每天一睁开眼睛就为了孩子忙活，做饭、洗衣服、接送、辅导作业，然后才是做自己的事情，每天忙的团团转，累得筋疲力尽。一发牢骚，孩子还会心生厌烦，根本不理解我的付出。再回头看看，每一位中国母亲不都是这样吗,这样我们就很伟大吗,我们付出了很多，却造就了一个又一个“小皇帝”、“小公主”…… 我们希望孩子成才，却又过度的保护他们，使得孩子变得无能无法自立;过分的溺爱，带来孩子的无情;过多的干涉，让孩子多了很多无奈;过多的指责，让孩子变得不知所措，找不到前进的方向…… 想要为孩子创造一个无忧无虑，快乐成长的天空，但却发现自己完完全全的占据了创造者的位置，其实，这个位置也要有一部分让孩子承担。现在的照顾，也许会暂时保护着他们，但是他们总有一天会长大，会在长大后遇到许许多多的困难，那个时候，我们是如何也帮不了他们的……也许，让孩子过早的面对金钱面对名利面对社会，会有不舍和心疼，但他们总有一天要面对，总有一天要承担。 我们为何不像那位犹太母亲那样，放开手，让孩子自己去开辟属于他们自己的天空呢,